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There are not so many people who are capable of neglecting the opinions of others
I propose now to periodically touch upon the question of how, even in childhood, the desire to be a good girl, an excellent student, to be liked by everyone and to meet the expectations of others is formed - this is a separate big topic. And although, of course, each of us understands intellectually that you cant please everyone, on a subconscious level we want to please a new acquaintance or significant interlocutor. This often manifests itself outwardly: a person begins to preen, straighten his hair, shake off specks from his clothes, tries to take on a more respectable appearance, straighten his posture, clears his throat, tuning his voice.