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Can a real man be a romantic ? And if so, what is it
Can a real man be a romantic? Doesn't it hurt his some feelings about presenting himself as a man and does the male romantic exist today? Today, in the 21st century? Romance for men - what kind of man is he, this male romantic? The good news is that the male romantic exists! Such men most often absolutely do not correspond to a woman's idea of romance. Romance for men in this case is absolutely in other things. Let's start with sex. A romantic man regards sex as an opportunity to show his feelings, which means that he needs an unusual, interesting and covered with secrets and intrigues woman. Does anyone recognize themselves here? Romance for men of this type is in the seriousness of the relationship and the possibility of their development. But all his romanticism grows roots from the simplest infantilization. This means that a real romantic man is only capable of romance. Nevertheless, most often a romantic man is more interested in giving pleasure to a woman, not caring about his feelings. This is explained absolutely not by the fact that he is a real man. The fact is that the romantic man is a born narcissist. Self-love is his unconcealed weakness. Everything he does comes only from the desire to please his woman. Therefore, everything he does for a woman happens unconsciously. For a woman it is most often no problem: because he does, and what motivates him to do it - does not play a role. In this case, the main thing that the romantic loves. Otherwise, he will just turn around and disappear. It is romantics who are called upon to break women's hearts more than anyone else. Nevertheless, romance for men who are prone to its manifestations can manifest good qualities. So, for example, a male romantic is capable of introspection. This means that such men are able to develop and change for the better. However, the fantasy of such men is very well developed, and their not very correct actions they can justify the most ordinary and unusual ways.