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what is difficult to cope without in summer?and is it true that summer is the time for change?
Most often, the wife goes to the resort with the children, leaving her husband completely alone in an empty apartment. The opposite is also true the husband goes on vacation without his wife while she remains in the city, since she could not go with him. Drinking alcohol in a company where there are both men and women is a sure path to treason, as many believe. And for good reason. A slight intoxication and a relaxing atmosphere help to weaken internal inhibitions. So a modest corporate party in nature can lead to problems in marriage. Sometimes simple boredom or mild blues especially in middle age can lead to betrayal. It seems to a person that his life has become monotonous, uninteresting, his youth is gone, old age is just around the corner, but here the weather is so beautiful, and he still wants to live for real. And, as proof of his masculinity, youth and for entertainment, he is looking for a partner on the side. It seems like it will help distract you and assert yourself, but no, it usually leads to even bigger problems. Strictly speaking, all of the above applies not only to men. These factors also influence women, pushing them to cheat. This is impossible, because there are two people in a marriage, not one, and it is impossible to know exactly what the spouse is thinking about, what he is doing and when. And, it is clear that constant control is unacceptable. After all, then the main basis of relationships is lost - trust. Suspecting treason and having real evidence are two different things. In the end, you can play detective only by looking at the situation soberly and adequately. Therefore, there is less suspicion and more trust. After all, most men take marriage seriously, just like women. You can try to reduce the likelihood of betrayal by increasing the quality of relationships, avoid quarrels over trifles, and long separations. Still, no one is immune from betrayal, except those people who do not have a partner or a serious relationship at all.