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Women usually react to them extremely painfully, and I know of cases where such incidents even ended in suicide. What can I say if we were raised this way? Most of us really find it difficult to talk about sexual topics, and only with close people.
The only way to be guaranteed to be on top in any situation is to choose a man who is crazy about you. Or at least very interested. Sleeping with those who dont care about you is an unacceptable frivolity for an adult lady.