Relationships should be easy and enjoyable.

So that you are constantly emotionally relaxed, and don’t think a thousand times a day: “What if he takes a walk to the left again?”, “What if he disappears again?”, “What if he gets drunk again and does nonsense?”, “What kind of Will he still throw out the number? Such a hassle can be compared to sitting on a powder keg. You sit and think: "Will it blow? Will it not blow?" But sooner or later it will still explode, and collect yourself in pieces. All difficult men must be left behind, because this expectation of trouble does not add happiness. Only wrinkles on the face and gray hair. You can't buy a second youth...