Don't try to keep something or someone in your life. It will only lead you to misery.

Take a look around. Nature is very wise. Everything around consists of the elements... Try to hold the fire and you will get burned. Wind or water... earth... and she tends to get enough sleep through her fingers. Everything is born free. Your task is only to create conditions for the fire to burn brighter, but not to keep it in any way, otherwise it will swallow you. Freedom is what matters. Give freedom to people and things around you, don't hold on to them, don't cling to them, to ideas about them. And then you will create the most comfortable conditions for your free life and for the life of others. People themselves will strive to be with you, because you give them the most important thing - freedom.