Tell her how tasty and cool it is to grab her hips that have finally recovered or, conversely, thinned. Say how amazing she is, how tasty and depraved she is. Spank your woman on the go when no one is watching, or vice versa - in front of a bunch of people, making her scream in surprise and blush. Touch her, kiss her, bite her. Whisper sweet, "dirty", only your words with her. Take her with the fury of an animal, leaving your marks on her, making her scream in sweet pain and make love to her, enjoying the tenderness. Talk to your woman. Discuss, argue, swear, prove, educate and punish if you deserve it. Ask for forgiveness if you're wrong. Share joy, doubts and problems with your woman. Share everything with her. And then you will be a very happy man.