If you leave yourself a “spare door” at the beginning of a relationship

, there is a 99% guarantee that in any problem situation you will run there. This is how the law of the “emergency door” works, when you seem to be in a relationship, but still not completely sure that you are really ready to be with this person. The real power in a relationship is when the choice is made in it. When I say that I choose you and you choose me. We are together, we understand that there can be anything, that there can be problems, difficulties, but we are together. We understand that mutual understanding may disappear, but we will look for it again. Because we are together.